How to help your elderly family members during the move

Relocation is quite stressful, especially for elderly family members. To them, relocation can appear so much stressful compared to a younger person. And this is totally normal. A lot of seniors have been living in their homes for years, even decades and moving can cause a lot of psychological stress. So, you have to be thoughtful and help them cope with relocation. Here are our best tips.

Have patience for elderly family members

The most important thing during this period is to try and stay calm, especially when talking to elderly family members. We know moving is hectic and stressful and that you have enough already on your plate. However, try to remain calm and understanding. Like we already mentioned, this change might have a big effect on them and they might feel confused. Be supportive and patient with them.

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Make sure to talk to your elders and make them feel included in the moving process

Don’t forget to talk and include your elderly family members in the process

Just because they are old doesn’t mean they are irrational. Yes, they can be sometimes but they are still human beings just like us. If you talk calmly and explain everything, it will give them a sense of security and understanding. Make sure to include them in the process as much as possible, without pushing them too hard. You can talk about decorating your new place or their room. They can help you with packing and decluttering. Just make sure to talk and include them in the process.

Organize the move

In order to make this experience less stressful for both you and your elderly family members, you need to organize the move. You can make a checklist of all the things you have to accomplish. This will help you organize everything and keep everything under control. Make sure to plan everything in advance so you can have room to react if something unexpected happens.

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Make sure to plan and organize the entire move in advance.

Hire professional movers

This one is definitely the best option to help both yourself and your seniors. Professional assistance can give you so many benefits. These companies offer plenty of services and can help you with anything regarding relocation. If you end up hiring one, you will have more time to focus on other things, including helping your elderly family members to pack and prepare for the move. You can also relax since you have professionals helping you out.

Help them pack and prepare

You need to help your elders move. This means to pack their stuff, hire a moving company and find storage if necessary. You have to help them prepare them for the move. Some seniors are unfortunately incapable of moving on their own, and if this is the case, then they need even more care. Keep in mind that they will truly appreciate everything you are doing for them. Just be supportive and understanding, and the entire process will be much easier for them. Good luck!




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